5 ways to get out of the Friendzone
I basically used a masculine gender here because most of the people who got friend zoned are us, boys rofl. No offense.
Well, it doesn't matter if you are a girl, boy, gay, lesbian, perhaps alien lmao.
There's no gender if you've been trapped in friendzone. This is always applicable to you.
Just feel free to read. Thanks.
Is friendzone a black hole?
It is really breakable?? Hmm, I think it does.
This is just my perspective on how to get out of friendzone, I don't have many experiences with this kind of stuff, but I can assure you some of this might help you.
#1 Remove your shoulders
And I'm not saying that you remove your shoulders in a literal way lmao. This is one of the mainstream reasons why you've been friend-zoned by the one you admire or what we called "crush" (crush will always crush your heart, just kiddin'). Every time she got a problem you were always her recourse in every situation. You always offer yourself to give her a piece of relationship advice about the one she likes and end up always in the same circumstances, a never-ending rewind. Trust me you have to stop being like that, stop being an idiot, STOP being her shoulders to cry on always!
Well, yeah it's important to treat her in a good way, respect her, and be a gentleman to her. But that doesn't mean you have to represent yourself as a pillow, as her damn pillow.
#2 Move to the next level
Try to reach her, talk to her, or invite her outside. Try to stare at her eyes better than before to the point that she'll notice that you're staring at her (do this not in a pervy way or she'll think that you have bad intention to her). Birthdays! Oh... this sh*t is the one you really shouldn't forget.
If you don't know her birthday, stalk her sometimes, it's not bad tho lmao. Don't ask her about it or she'll expect, surprise her. Try to know what's her favorite food and just go buy it, wrap it, give, done. Don't hesitate to hand it to her. She will think that she has a special place in your heart and it will barely help you escaping this terrible thing called "friend zone".
Btw, no ladies on this earth will not be pleased if you give them something they will not expect, especially if that kind of thing is very close to her heart.
#3 The absence
Sometimes in the blue moon, you have to distance yourself to her, not in a negative way tho. Have you heard of this saying "You will never know the true value of a person until he/she's gone" perhaps you have, and if you distance yourself to her she will start to realize what value you had to her when you are always there for her.
I'm not saying that you will just vanish in front of her eyes without telling anything, you just need to minimize your involvements on what's happening around her.
#4 Knight in shining armor
There's no other attraction in this world other than being gentleman, so if you are a guy who wishes to escape in friendzone you should have this kind of trait. Be a guy who has high-class morale and utmost respect.
Open the door for her, if she's feeling cold offer your jacket to her. And if you two are in the restaurant always pull the chair for her. But don't be overboard, what's important here is that you have a task that you should always make her comfy rather than focussing on the "relationship" you want with her.
#5 Tell her
Probably the most important part here.
Still, stuck in the friend zone? Wondering how? Why? What went wrong? Well, the problem is not the friendzone, it's you!
You have to step up yourself!
You have to tell her what you really felt for her, and it's not the friends' thing anymore. Frightening right? But this is the most important of all, you really have to tell her and just pray to all saints hoping that she feels the same about you lmao.
Stop freaking out that it will ruin the friendship between the two of you, actually, this is the cliche part if we talk about friendzone. But trust me it's better if you risk all the love interest you had and what you truly felt for her.
What if she's just waiting for you?
f i n
Well, it doesn't matter if you are a girl, boy, gay, lesbian, perhaps alien lmao.
There's no gender if you've been trapped in friendzone. This is always applicable to you.
Just feel free to read. Thanks.
Is friendzone a black hole?
It is really breakable?? Hmm, I think it does.
This is just my perspective on how to get out of friendzone, I don't have many experiences with this kind of stuff, but I can assure you some of this might help you.
#1 Remove your shoulders
And I'm not saying that you remove your shoulders in a literal way lmao. This is one of the mainstream reasons why you've been friend-zoned by the one you admire or what we called "crush" (crush will always crush your heart, just kiddin'). Every time she got a problem you were always her recourse in every situation. You always offer yourself to give her a piece of relationship advice about the one she likes and end up always in the same circumstances, a never-ending rewind. Trust me you have to stop being like that, stop being an idiot, STOP being her shoulders to cry on always!
Well, yeah it's important to treat her in a good way, respect her, and be a gentleman to her. But that doesn't mean you have to represent yourself as a pillow, as her damn pillow.
#2 Move to the next level
Try to reach her, talk to her, or invite her outside. Try to stare at her eyes better than before to the point that she'll notice that you're staring at her (do this not in a pervy way or she'll think that you have bad intention to her). Birthdays! Oh... this sh*t is the one you really shouldn't forget.
If you don't know her birthday, stalk her sometimes, it's not bad tho lmao. Don't ask her about it or she'll expect, surprise her. Try to know what's her favorite food and just go buy it, wrap it, give, done. Don't hesitate to hand it to her. She will think that she has a special place in your heart and it will barely help you escaping this terrible thing called "friend zone".
Btw, no ladies on this earth will not be pleased if you give them something they will not expect, especially if that kind of thing is very close to her heart.
#3 The absence
Sometimes in the blue moon, you have to distance yourself to her, not in a negative way tho. Have you heard of this saying "You will never know the true value of a person until he/she's gone" perhaps you have, and if you distance yourself to her she will start to realize what value you had to her when you are always there for her.
I'm not saying that you will just vanish in front of her eyes without telling anything, you just need to minimize your involvements on what's happening around her.
#4 Knight in shining armor
There's no other attraction in this world other than being gentleman, so if you are a guy who wishes to escape in friendzone you should have this kind of trait. Be a guy who has high-class morale and utmost respect.
Open the door for her, if she's feeling cold offer your jacket to her. And if you two are in the restaurant always pull the chair for her. But don't be overboard, what's important here is that you have a task that you should always make her comfy rather than focussing on the "relationship" you want with her.
#5 Tell her
Probably the most important part here.
Still, stuck in the friend zone? Wondering how? Why? What went wrong? Well, the problem is not the friendzone, it's you!
You have to step up yourself!
You have to tell her what you really felt for her, and it's not the friends' thing anymore. Frightening right? But this is the most important of all, you really have to tell her and just pray to all saints hoping that she feels the same about you lmao.
Stop freaking out that it will ruin the friendship between the two of you, actually, this is the cliche part if we talk about friendzone. But trust me it's better if you risk all the love interest you had and what you truly felt for her.
What if she's just waiting for you?
f i n
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